2 responses to “Remaining Hopeful About the Future

  1. Are 18 to 36 Year Old Americans Hopeful?

    I was reading your blog post about hope while lunching at Seasons 52. When my server and the bar tender asked me what I was reading, I shared your post with them. Soon the assistant manager joined the group, and then younger employees started to drop by my table. All were eager to share their ideas and opinions, so I chatted for several hours and took some notes. Two days later, I repeated the process at Bahama Breeze. Yesterday, I shared your post with fellow fitness enthusiasts at my gym. Over the last three days, thirty-three people read your post and chatted with me about it. The oldest person was thirty-six; the youngest was eighteen. Over sixty percent were Black or Latina/Latino.  Here is a summary of their comments edited for brevity.

    Conduct

    My 4th grade teacher would never have allowed her class to behave the way many state and federal legislators behave today. Even my parents are embarrassed, and they are life-long Republicans.

    When I look at how state and federal legislators act and listen to what they say, I remember why I resigned from my college fraternity. A frat boy/frat girl mentality dominates one of today’s major political parties.

    Information, Respect, and Polarization

    No one seems to be educating us. Everyone seems to be trying to “sell” us on their position or belief system. There’s no context, no balance, and no respect for anyone who does not share a very specific world view.      

    Too many members of the generations that preceded our generation seem willing to become PIE People. Uninterested in context, balance or spending time researching issues, PIE People prefer perfect, instant, and easy-to-understand explanations for everything. This has led to the polarization of the electorate on both the right and the left: either you share my belief or you are not a real American. We view ourselves as real Americans, and we do not agree 100% with either the extremists on the right or the extremists on the left. We are “sensible centrists” who, at the moment, seem to be politically homeless in America.

    Money

    America seems to work best for the wealthy. And when a country only works for the rich, it will not last long.

    The state in which we live and work is joining way too many of its sister states in becoming a pay to play state. Legislators with no background in education become university presidents and earn obscene salaries; friends of the governor receive million dollar no-bid contracts; other “friends” are appointed to state  agencies that regulate—drum roll, please—the companies they own or for which they work.

    Fear, Imagination, and Hope

    My grandparents lived through political turmoil in their birth country very similar to what has been happening in America since 2016. They are terrified of what is coming, feel powerless to do anything, and are beginning to conclude that Democracy does not work because too many people are incapable of governing themselves.

    The problem with native-born Americans is that they cannot imagine their country in ruins. It has survived so much and emerged stronger every time because the center held, sensible people prevailed, and mob rule was avoided. But this time is different. The barbarians are at the gate, and those barbarians are our fellow citizens who either believe they will benefit from a country in ruins or trust that the guardrails of democracy in place since 1776 will hold no matter how irresponsibly they—and their leaders—behave.

    The only hope I have left for this country is that extremists on the left and the right will re-discover the concept of enlightened self-interest and start talking and listening to one another because if American doesn’t work for most of its citizens, it does not work for any of its citizens.

    Action and Inaction

    As soon as I finish my degree in computer science, I am applying for Canadian citizenship.

    I have cancelled my newspaper subscriptions, no longer watch the news on TV, and avoid political discussions by leaving the room. My survival plan is to keep my head down, try not to make myself a target, and avoid getting on anyone’s radar by registering to vote. Although I will hope for the best, I also plan to prepare for the worst. 

    I will hold my nose and vote for the “least bad” candidate. But there is something seriously wrong with a political system that tells me the two best candidates for president of the most powerful nation in the world are an octogenarian or an intellectually challenged blowhard who is a bully, a liar, and possibly a criminal.

    Why Am I Sharing This Information with You? Your blog post triggered some thoughtful—and much needed—conversations in unexpected places. The young people with whom I spoke were thrilled that someone was interested in their opinion, and they definitely wanted to learn more. When I reminded several not to neglect their customers, they told me that they had gone off shift nearly an hour ago. At their request, I am developing a list of resources for all the people with whom I spoke, and I have promised to return frequently over the summer to continue our conversation. Bottom Line: Perhaps all of us need to do our bit to find small pockets of hope, and then water the heck out of them!


  2. Maggie, thank you so much for your comment!

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